Shirley M. (Mello) Grimshaw, 65, of School Street, P.O. Box 186, Albion, R.I. 02802, died Wednesday, Sept. 2, 2015, at the Philip Hulitar Inpatient Center, Providence. She was the beloved wife of A. W. Grimshaw III for 46 years.
Born in Bristol, a daughter of Shirley (Flynn) Mello of Bristol, and the late Edward Mello, she had lived in Seekonk for 35 years, before moving to Lincoln in 2014. With her husband, she had summered in Northport, Maine, for many years, where she enjoyed walking the beach in search of heart rocks, fossils and sea glass.
Mrs. Grimshaw worked as a computer programmer in the Information Sciences Division of Fleet Bank and Bank of America before becoming ill, of which she had struggled with for 37 years. She dedicated her life to her husband, two children, and six precious grandchildren. This included 2 1/2 years assisting her husband in setting up a plant in Germany.
She was a member of the Lupus Foundation, serving on the Board of Directors. She loved researching her family’s history and genealogy, which led her to become a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution, and a member of the New England Genealogical Society.
She was a longtime member of the Barrington Baptist Church, where she taught Sunday School for many years. She was an avid reader, collector of rare books and an expert of early American history.
Besides her husband, she is survived by one daughter, Heather Grimshaw-Howard of Lincoln; one son, Scott W. Grimshaw of Foster; five grandchildren, Benjamin Howard, Abigail Howard, Samuel Howard, Jacob Howard, and Xiaolu Grimshaw; two sisters, Sara Mello-Sooknah and Jayne Mello; five brothers, James Mello, Edward “Ted” Mello, Joseph Mello, Thomas Mello, and Kevin Mello; and several nieces and nephews. She was the grandmother of the late Jonathan Grimshaw.
A Service of Remembrance & Thanksgiving will be celebrated Saturday, Sept. 12, at 2:30 p.m. at the home of her daughter, 1730 Old Louisquisset Pike, Lincoln. Relatives and friends are invited. Visiting hours are respectfully omitted.
Private burial will take place in the family lot at North Burial Ground, Bristol. In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory to Home & Hospice Care of R.I. 1085 North Main St., Providence, R.I. 02904, or to Crossroads Rhode Island, 160 Broad St., Providence, R.I. 02903, or to the Lupus Foundation of New England, 40 Speen St., Suite 205, Framingham, MA 01701, or to Fair Haven Camps, 81 West Fair Haven Lane, Brooks, ME 04921 would be appreciated. For directions and guestbook, please visit www.bellowsfuneralchapel.com. Arrangements with Bellows Funeral Chapel, 160 River Road, Lincoln.
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