I’ll miss our regular visits to the Bristol Sip ‘n Dip. I’ll miss his warm, gentle smile and the spontaneous greeting: “Manny Correira, how’s everything?” Things just won’t be the same any more.
My dear friend Michael Corso, affectionately called “Red” by all those who knew him, passed from this life on Aug. 20, after suffering a fall in a tragic accident three days earlier. In recent years, he lived in Bristol with his wife of 60-plus years, Teresa Corso. Before retiring, he worked for many years in the jewelry industry.
Red was the gentlest, most respected man I ever met. Born, raised and educated in Providence, it was his association with the Rhode Island Matadors Drum & Bugle Corps which formed our friendship. That was some 40 years ago, when the corps was rehearsing at the old Naval Reserve Armory at the foot of Church Street in Bristol. There’s always been a distinct connection between the Matadors and the town of Bristol, with a good number of corps members coming from our fair community.
“Those were great years,” as Red once reflected in an earlier interview. Music filled the armory and attracted a large number of visitors each week, myself included. From that moment on, Red and I became inseparable.
Drum and bugle corps, of course, was not foreign to us Bristolians. George R. “Dep” Fish, a proud Bristolian, was the father of drum corps in the United States, having formed the original Bristol Boy Scouts Troop 1 Drum & Bugle Corps in 1913.
Remarkably, Red Corso and George Fish had much in common. They both started in scouting and each had a vision about drum corps which was both unique and commanding. In addition, they were as committed and dedicated to the activity as any two men in history. Each achieved national acclaim.
Red founded the Matadors in 1969. As he recalled, “On this memorable evening, a group of dedicated men gave birth to a new drum corps, the Rhode Island Matadors. This was not to be a merger of two corps but a brand new corps with brand new ideas and brand new goals, to compete with the elite of drum corps on a national level.”
In 1972, the Matadors achieved that goal by becoming members of Drum Corps Associates, the only R.I. drum corps to have that distinction.
Red Corso brought honor and integrity to drum corps in this area. For 40 years he served as DCA treasurer and led the RI Matadors, with its trademark Spanish style music, to national prominence, including two separate fourth place finishes at the DCA Championship. He also was proud of the corps’ scintillating performance at New York’s Madison Square Garden in 1977 in a DCA show many thought the Matadors should have won.
He also helped form the RI Picadors Junior Drum & Bugle Corps of Bristol, which was designed to help kids continue their music education while serving as a “feeder” drum corps for the Matadors.
Throughout his drum corps career, Red gained national and international recognition, including induction into the World Drum Corps Hall of Fame and Rhode Island Matadors Hall of Fame. He was the example by which others followed. I’m convinced that over the course of these many years, Red loved drum corps more than any man I ever knew.
He also loved being a part of the Bristol community. He wanted to retire here because of this town’s beauty and drum corps heritage. He and his wife enjoyed walking down Bristol’s historic downtown district admiring its architectural splendor. And, above all, Red loved parading with the Matadors in the Bristol Fourth of July Parade.
I invited Red to march with me as an aide when I was Fourth of July Parade Chief Marshal in 2007, and of course, he happily accepted. He even helped put together a special Matadors float to mark the occasion. I was so overwhelmed by his generosity. But then again, Red had always been that way.
On the street marching with his corps or in a rehearsal hall, Red Corso always put his best foot forward. There will never be another man like him. He is survived by his wife, Teresa, his daughter, Elaine, his grandchildren and great children. He was also preceded in death by a son, Michael J. Corso, who died tragically in a motor vehicle accident some years ago.
Bob Burns of Bristol, a longtime member of the Matadors, said Red was special in every way.
“There are just a few people in this world who have the rare ability to make you feel that you matter in this world,” he said. “They make you achieve more than you thought you could and expected nothing less of you, so you never want to disappoint them. There are very few of these people on this Earth so if you’re fortunate enough to have had one as your friend and lose him, that loss is extremely profound.”
In the end, Michael Corso lived his dream…with style and dignity. And, for all of us who knew and loved him, we’re better off for it.